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here are many reasons why a woman or couple  


may be childless. It could be biological, 


a personal decision, or something else.  

Thankfully the societal pressure to have children 

has lessoned in these modern times, but being 

childless is still considered abnormal in the 

minds of many. For parents the joy of children  

is something they want to share. Just like the 

joy of marriage is something those in love 

want to share. But for those unlucky in love or 

child bearing, it is the last thing they need.
The pressure to have a child is far worse 

for women. The expectation is that all 

women want to be mothers. You seldom 

hear the phrase, “The biological clock

is ticking.” being used to refer to men.

If anything the opposite is considered 

true of men. That they don’t want to 

be fathers. Another popularly held 

expectation that is often not correct.
For those of us caught up in the ‘joy’  

of parenthood, here are a few things to 

keep in mind not to say to childless family and friends 

(the reasons should be obvious):

1. “Now that I have children, my life has  

true meaning!”

2. “You’re being selfish.”

3. “I didn’t invite you because there were kids

at the party.

4. “But you would be such a great mom!”

5. “You’ll understand when you have  


6. “Don’t wait too long.”

7. “You had better hurry up and give your  

  husband a child before he finds someone  

who will.”

8. “You don’t know what real love is.”

9. “Aren’t you worried there’ll be no one  

to look after you when you’re old?”

10. “Is your husband/family ok with  

you not having kids?”